HeTRo QueeR

What the fuck is hetro queer?

I am, and fucking proud of it.
Its a hetro who hates being called straight, cos it make us sound so boring
Its a hetro who read about queer stuff and doesnt feel threatened or grossed out.
Its a hetro who can read GLBTI porn and understand why its hot, even if it doesnt get you excited
Its a hetro who can appreciate the beauty no matter what gender the person is.
Its a hetro who hates all the dumb phobias, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, intersexphobia (not sure if thats an actual word) and hetrophobia
Its a hetro who understand gender pronouns and uses the correct ones
Its a hetro who fights for the rights of others even though their sexuality, gender, or whatever may be different from themself.
Its a hetro who explores sexuality and desire, and understands why things are the way they are even if its not the same as themselves

Who am I?

not sure how to answer that, maybe ill do it in point form

• Im a voracious reader of books, heaps of sex stuff not just the "how to.." crap thats everywhere, i like stuff by patrick califia, gender bending stuff, queer history, the science of sexuality, humour, porn, comics, and books on swearing in other languages, cos you learn so much about places by the way they talk dirty.
• I have been know to go off on a tangent when discussing stuff, like my brain sees a connection and i start talking about it and people wonder where the fuck that came from
• I have a ribald sense of humour, which i think i inherited from my mum
• I can name 100s of sexual fetishes and acts, and even the history of some.
• my view on sexual stuff is if you want to try it, do it twice. first time to see if you like it, second time to see why other people like it
• I used to work as a relationship enhancement advisor, so im used to seeing  
• I love art and spend too much time online and not enough time painting
• Im a nerd, possibly even a sex nerd if there is such a thing.
• I shy, but if you get me talking sometimes you cant shut me up

warning: I will add to these lists when i think of more stuff.